Absorbent Rocks
Family values, Love, Everyday wisdom
Gethin Amoss
5/23/20241 min read


A while ago, my children brought home rocks and pebbles they had decorated with encouragements and affirmations.
I noticed recently that some had faded, and only illegible coloured stains remained. As I love metaphorical life lessons from everyday occurrences, here's a few possible one-liner insights from the faded pebbles.
- Words can eventually sink in no matter how 'hard' someone appears.
- Second coats are done for a reason.
- We often concentrate on, and have an overemphasis on the surface of things.
- Our appearance never reveals the depth of what we have inside.
- How many of us have been 'caught' between 'coloured-coats' of whatever life lesson we're in the middle of? I bet I've often appeared 'stained' or 'smudged' to others.
- Sometimes people negatively mark our surface. It may eventually fade by itself, but we also have to stop re-applying it for them and choose our next 'coat' wisely.
What word or lesson do you need a 're-coat' of today?
Finally, my paternal grandfather was a stone engraver.
I decided to try engraving our central family value of ‘love’ on a stone from the stream near our house. Grandad would probably have a few pointers for me. I'm working on the rest of our family values.
What would you carve in stone?
Are there any other metaphors you see here?
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